Monday Marriage: 5 Ways to QUICKLY RESOLVE A FIGHT IN MARRIAGE

Marriage is such hard work isn't it? If someone ever tells you that marriage isn't work then they are lying or they simply are clueless because the fact is, IT'S WORK.



Have you ever wondered how some couples seem to just have it all together in their marriage? They never fight or argue, and if they do it seems to be resolved quickly?

Well your not alone, I too have wondered how many women in their marriage seem to be able to handle conflict with such dignity, integrity and respect with their mate.

Today's post is all about learning to FIGHT to WIN. But, not in the sense that you may think. Its not about WINNING to be right or WINNING to prove a point, but its WINNING TO WIN YOUR SPOUSE AND MARRIAGE. Its FIGHTING FOR YOUR MARRIAGE!

Early on in my marriage I remember when my husband and I would fight or argue, I would get real defensive and begin to attack the very man I loved. I remember bringing up things that happened years ago and throw it in his face, or I remember being able to ignore him in such a way that it would drive him crazy.
Its interesting how we women can one minute adore our husbands and the next the claws come out and our emotions switch and we can claw their eyes out.

Yes, you know what I'm talking about. Sometimes we can fight dirty. I want to share with you 3 ways that you FIGHT to WIN in your marriage. These 3 TESTED and PROVED ways will be sure to have you WIN any FIGHT in your marriage!


1)I DONT WANT TO FIGHT

When you tell yourself and your spouse these 5 little words, it can change so much. It can change the tone of your attitude and the tone of your spouses. No woman really wants to fight with her husband, I mean come on you really don't want to argue or fight, so why not remind yourself of that and end the fight by saying those words.

2)I WANT WHATS BEST FOR YOU

When you want whats best for your husband you wont argue or fight with him because you know that it is not in his best interest. You know that fighting with him is hurting him. So want good for him and want his best.

3)LOVE COVERS IT ALL

There is nothing that love cant cover. Think of Gods love toward us, while we were yet sinners Christ died for us, he loved us at our worst. We can love our husbands when they are at their worst, cant we? Some women give up to easily, they think they are doing good by separating from their husbands or leaving them because he sinned or did something. Im not talking about husbands who physically abuse their wives clearly that's dangerous to live in and a woman needs to contact the authorities and protect herself and the children from physical abuse, but there are women who will leave their husbands because he is abusive in his words or for other minor things, this is HURTFUL to the children, IVE SEEN IT!!!
So LOVE YOUR MAN LOVE COVERS ALL THINGS.